Relationships: How to spot a cheater
Sept 5, Oslo: You can ask any relationship expert and the one they agree to-- is the fact that cheaters come in all shapes and size. It is difficult to recognize unfaithful partners in fact some of them appear from solid marriages too.
So given the vast array of people who apparently stray from their commitments, researchers have found a way to detect a cheat even before you get involved. Here are three things to look out for:
1. He is secretive: A guy who is secretive and doesn't reveal much about himself or his life is someone you should be very alert about as most of such guys tend to live double lives.
Communication and the willingness to be an open book are two of the most important factors to a happy and successful relationship. And if a guy is keeping secrets look out because you are headed for trouble.
2. Selfish and self-indulgent: Men who tend to cheat are usually selfish and self indulgent and only think of themselves and are like this in all aspects of their life. If you want a good idea of a man's moral character look at the way he lives his life and the way he treats others. If you start noticing that he is only out for himself, and he obviously doesn’t care about others (including you) then its better to turn around and walk away, because you will only land into a heart break.
3. Sudden change in behavior: Guys who cheat tend to change their behavior, in various ways. He might take undue interest in his appearance and his grooming habits may change. He might also get you giftsout of the blue.
The Oslo Times